tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post3203201554412438215..comments2024-01-12T02:50:35.638-06:00Comments on Problem Girl: Sorry, I can't respect you disrespecting meJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13170131429639166827noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-17707911265443472752010-01-30T00:31:13.248-06:002010-01-30T00:31:13.248-06:00Kind of off topic... But how do I know if surrogac...Kind of off topic... But how do I know if surrogacy is right for me? Ever since the birth of my own 2 babies- conceived with a sperm donor, I've felt the need to help someone else in this way. Or perhaps through egg donation. Ergg. So frustrating not knowing what or how to do this for someone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-9465518486497891772010-01-14T11:51:04.055-06:002010-01-14T11:51:04.055-06:00You are truly amazing :DYou are truly amazing :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-61941473160320676842010-01-14T02:49:37.353-06:002010-01-14T02:49:37.353-06:00It's not my in-laws that are this way to me, b...It's not my in-laws that are this way to me, but my own raised-me-theirselves-parents. I take strength from reading about your zenner-than-me handling. It ain't easy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-60011973958843946842010-01-12T16:53:52.220-06:002010-01-12T16:53:52.220-06:00Good for you! Sometimes the hardest thing is takin...Good for you! Sometimes the hardest thing is taking the high road, and you did it wonderfully. Oh, and Go-Go-Gadget Boobs, AWESOME!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16604798405812433686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-53993931900737564992010-01-12T14:48:15.547-06:002010-01-12T14:48:15.547-06:00I cannot understand who in the world could not tot...I cannot understand who in the world could not totally think you're the bravest, most wonderfully strong, loving, giving woman in the universe. Anyone who doesn't should just shut the hell up.<br /><br />I've never even met you, and I'm SO PROUD of you. :-)Suzy Voiceshttp://justmeandthevoices.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-45251365442321671162010-01-12T14:08:43.314-06:002010-01-12T14:08:43.314-06:00Ugh, I just don't understand why some people f...Ugh, I just don't understand why some people feel the need to loudly express their opinions over and over and over. I'm thinking if a firmly stated, "I appreciate your concern, but I am very confident and comfortable with my decision to this" doesn't work, maybe some passive aggressiveness is worth a try. Such as, ignore their statements and reply with something absurd and annoying like, "Do you really think that haircut was the best way to go? You are really going to regret it when THAT mess starts getting longer. I hear that a bad haircut adds 20 pounds and a whole crop of new gray hair."<br /><br />But really, I think what you are doing is wonderful, and I admire you a lot for it.dancing_lemurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16544443358958466637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-64942983172820380612010-01-11T22:36:31.402-06:002010-01-11T22:36:31.402-06:00Not only that (and well said, by the way), but wha...Not only that (and well said, by the way), but what do they expect you to do? See the light and somehow travel back in time to avoid the whole thing?<br /><br />I think what you do is amazing and wonderful.Stimeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09685801693683588805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-32853105585324765322010-01-11T20:35:58.845-06:002010-01-11T20:35:58.845-06:00P.S. Go-Go-Gadget Boobs will have me giggling all...P.S. Go-Go-Gadget Boobs will have me giggling all week. ;-)Estherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11362207430242737134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-22262737688681425222010-01-11T20:35:30.611-06:002010-01-11T20:35:30.611-06:00You know, I could never do what you're doing. ...You know, I could never do what you're doing. I just know that. But there are special people out there, like you, that can give that gift, and God bless them for being able to. My personal opinions (or anyone else's) don't matter--you're giving of yourself.Estherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11362207430242737134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-22151067364499886582010-01-11T20:01:27.797-06:002010-01-11T20:01:27.797-06:00God, I love you all.
Judy - Jesse doesn't rea...God, I love you all.<br /><br />Judy - Jesse doesn't read my blog often but if I tell him not to read it you can bet he'll read it the first chance he gets.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13170131429639166827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-48366091744609485242010-01-11T19:43:25.022-06:002010-01-11T19:43:25.022-06:00Well, I think you are fucking awesome to go throug...Well, I think you are fucking awesome to go through pregnancy for someone else. Because pregnancy is no fun.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-47329384025206579352010-01-11T19:37:54.633-06:002010-01-11T19:37:54.633-06:00I will never forget the first words out of your mo...I will never forget the first words out of your mouth when A was born.... "I am SO happy for them" came from your lips as you cast a loving, tired, SATISFIED look across your shoulder at the happiest fathers in a 500 mile radius. I was forever changed by that moment just by simply being present at that birth, and its something I'll never forget. You are doing this for all of the right reasons, and for none of the wrong reasons. I'm proud to call you my friend.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07481403621926486234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-46118437841667114512010-01-11T18:16:28.789-06:002010-01-11T18:16:28.789-06:00My dear Jen, I know I am your mother-in-law, and p...My dear Jen, I know I am your mother-in-law, and perhaps now you understand why I am not with your father-in-law. Nothing ever changes, there is no growth, there is no other perspective, no evolution of ideas, no progress. Your best plan is to just let it go. Consider the source and dismiss the comment. I am so very proud of you for not loosing your cool.. I would have probably screamed, "You just aren't listening to me!!".. and what does holding the babies have to do with anything...you have them inside you now, what difference is holding them outside of you going to make....Arrghhh...don't let Jesse read this.. I don't like to say bad things about his father. I have a cool mental picture of your Go-Go-Gadget Boobs.... can yo disconnect them from the rest or your body?? That would be really really convenient!!<br />Love you.... JudyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-85536302236333094212010-01-11T15:41:03.165-06:002010-01-11T15:41:03.165-06:00I totally startled the sleeping babe on my chest b...I totally startled the sleeping babe on my chest by snorting at the Go-Go-Gadget Boobs mental image. (She fell right back to sleep though, fortunately.)<br /><br />I don't know how you keep your cool with repeated comments like that from the in-laws. Especially the second time around! Especially while pregnant and hormonal! I would completely lose my shit and say something that would undoubtedly cause irreparable damage to the family relationship, or something. You're a stronger woman than I.susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12972073087103859606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-69650382355627869422010-01-11T13:50:42.812-06:002010-01-11T13:50:42.812-06:00go-go-gadget-boobs. :D glad I'm not the only...go-go-gadget-boobs. :D glad I'm not the only one who thought that rocked.Alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16870527550255669643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-18375815582308622012010-01-11T13:47:34.503-06:002010-01-11T13:47:34.503-06:00Eff 'em. You're still my hero and truly, w...Eff 'em. You're still my hero and truly, what could be more important than validation from your internet friends ;-)<br /><br />Seriously though, I'm constantly amazed and impressed and proud of you for doing this. I want to be half as cool as you when I grow up.Ferdinand the Duckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04174824050460444368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11653780.post-32708416294346646652010-01-11T13:15:09.341-06:002010-01-11T13:15:09.341-06:00Go-Go-Gadget Boobs--I am thinking you have a futur...Go-Go-Gadget Boobs--I am thinking you have a future in porn here. You say people don't always like the unconventional, but Jenny, there is always someone out there who LOVES the unconventional.Emilynoreply@blogger.com